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		<title>Introducing Peppermint</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 19:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So it has been an eventful Christmas &#8211; New Year&#8217;s Holiday here at the Weathers household. Things didn&#8217;t work out how we planned, but we&#8217;re hanging in there, and the ride has ultimately turned out fun after all. Every year, Melinda and I both take off the week of Christmas and the week of New ]]></description>
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<p>So it has been an eventful Christmas &#8211; New Year&#8217;s Holiday here at the Weathers household. Things didn&#8217;t work out how we planned, but we&#8217;re hanging in there, and the ride has ultimately turned out fun after all.</p>
<p>Every year, Melinda and I both take off the week of Christmas and the week of New Year&#8217;s Day. This year our vacation started after we both left work on Friday, December 19. Saturday, we enjoyed our first day of the break by taking Doobie to the dog park and then doing some last minute Christmas shopping at Fry&#8217;s Electronics store followed by some tasty gluten-free pizza at a Pepperoni&#8217;s Pizza in Duluth.</p>
<p>Also, on Saturday, we finally managed to get salt delivered for our house&#8217;s water filtering system. It turned out that thanks to a tripped wire, our system had not run through its cycle for several months. So in addition to filling up the salt in the tank, the tech guy set the system to run that night.</p>
<p>Despite being on vacation, we couldn&#8217;t quite shake the habit of getting up early for work, so Melinda and I woke up around eight on Sunday. We went downstairs, and I made us some breakfast and coffee at which point it became clear that the initial run of our water filter system after months of disuse had left the water in our pipes tasting funny. In fact, the taste was unpleasant enough that we poured out our coffees.</p>
<p>But Melinda definitely needs her coffee in the morning despite not really drinking the stuff much until I came along. So it fell upon me to run out for some emergency coffee orders. The plan was a quick drive to the Starbucks that sits a few intersections down from our neighborhood on Windy Hill Road. Since they have a drive-thru window, I wouldn&#8217;t even have to get dressed! Thus, garbed in a bathrobe and a simple coat, I set off on my short trip &#8211; it turned out to be shorter than either of us thought it would be.<span id="more-132"></span></p>
<p>As I came to a stop at the entrance to my subdivision, I recognized one of my neighbors Lisa standing out in the grassy median on Windy Hill. She owns a golden retriever mix named Lacy who is often at odds with Doobie when they encounter each other on walks through the neighborhood. Lisa appeared to have Lacy sitting beside her. For a confused second, I thought that it was a rather cold morning to be taking a walk and that doing so in the middle of Windy Hill wasn&#8217;t the best idea. I then realized that Lisa wasn&#8217;t holding a leash and that the dog was definitely not Lacy &#8211; in fact, it appeared to be a mostly white female pit bull.</p>
<p>I was instantly reminded of the awful night on October 10, 2007 when Bodie had escaped and been killed by a car on Windy Hill. I knew that I had to make sure that the same thing didn&#8217;t happen to this scared dog that my neighbor was trying to help.</p>
<p>Nerves mounting, I stepped out of the car into the cold morning air in my bathrobe and inadequate coat. I must have looked rather amusing in retrospect. Lisa had a small dog-treat and was trying to calmly lure the pit bull to within collar-grasping reach. The dog wasn&#8217;t buying it though as she was obviously scared, sitting in the median just out of reach and howling in fear.</p>
<p>I spoke with Lisa and she informed me that she had been coming home on Windy Hill and seen the dog out there. Knowing that it would likely get hit out there, she had come back to the road with a treat and her dog Lacy&#8217;s leash in hopes of catching the dog before it could get hurt.</p>
<p>At about that time, another neighbor in his car pulled up behind my car and got out to help me. I noticed that some cars were coming and the dog was looking a little jumpy. She started to walk out into the road, and I felt a rush of panic. I stepped out into the road to try to stop traffic and thankfully my neighbor joined me. Together, we stood in each of the lanes on our side of the road and directed cars safely around the scared dog as Lisa calmly lured her back to the safety of the median with the treat.</p>
<p>By now, a few other neighbors had come out of their houses to see what was the commotion was. Lisa asked one of them to call Animal Control, but I urged against this idea. During my experiences in helping Ramses the pit bull reunite with his owner, I had learned that our country has a policy of euthanizing pit bulls that are handed over to Animal Control after the legal five days period during which an owner can attempt to reclaim. The reason is that because of the breed&#8217;s (unjust) bad reputation, they are not considered adoptable and so they are killed to make room for other animals.</p>
<p>As I was sharing this information with my neighbors, I was pleased to see a Smyrna policer officer arrive on the scene. My neighbors and I had been doing a fair job at directing the limited traffic up until then, but it&#8217;s definitely more reassuring that people will stop when there&#8217;s a police car and an officer in uniform standing there. Shortly after the officer arrived, one of my neighbors managed to distract the pit long enough for Lisa to grab its collar and hook her up to the Lacy&#8217;s leash. The dog tried to bolt in fear, but we had her now and led her into the safety of our neighborhood.</p>
<p>The officer said that he was going to call Animal Control, but I made a quick decision and explained to him that it wasn&#8217;t necessary because if no one else could do it, my wife and I could take the dog back to our yard and try to find its rightful owners. I told him why I didn&#8217;t wish to see the dog go to Animal Control and he acknowledged that I was correct. He said that he was an animal lover as well and that if I was prepared to take the dog back to my house that he was fine with that.</p>
<p>So I drove back home to give Melinda the unpleasant news while Lisa graciously followed on foot with the dog. When I stepped back inside the house with a grim look on my face, I told Melinda: &#8220;I&#8217;m back without the coffee&#8230; And you&#8217;re not going to be happy.&#8221; I then told her what had happened at which point you could see the mild panic in Melinda&#8217;s eyes as she reiterated like a protective ritual chant the fact that &#8220;We are a <strong>one</strong> dog family!&#8221; I tried to reassure her that I did not intend for this dog to become dog number two, but that I could not let it be put to death for the crime of being a stray pit bull.</p>
<p>After a few moments of discussion, we decided that I would get to work on doing all the various things that are necessary when one finds a stray while Melinda who still very much needed her coffee (especially with the new developments) would take a shower and head out to get some coffee. I went outside to meet Lisa and the pit bull who were both now in my back yard where mercifully the gates were fully repaired and working and no sections were missing from any late night car accidents from the nearby apartment complex.</p>
<p>Lisa said that we could borrow the leash and that she would come by later with some treats and extra food. She then left to get home to her husband who was sitting with their baby and probably wondering what had happened to his wife. Lisa had let the pit bull off the leash to try to calm her down in the back yard and so now it fell to me to try to establish a rapport with the beast.</p>
<p>I got an almost full can of Pupperoni Snacks from the kitchen and then sat down on my back porch to patiently try to earn the dog&#8217;s trust. She remained very scared, but slowly approached me to gently accept the treats that I offered. Any attempt to pet her though resulted in her fleeing out of reach.</p>
<p>It was going to be a long morning, and it didn&#8217;t help that it was freezing outside and my dry hands were painfully exposed to it. After awhile it became clear that I wouldn&#8217;t be able to stand sitting outside with her for too long, and yet I have never fully trusted my fence since the first time Bodie escape from it with the assistance of strong gust of wind and so I didn&#8217;t want to simply leave her out there.</p>
<p>I went inside and erected our old dog gate that we had used when we first got Bodie to keep him confined to the kitchen during the day before we trusted that he would have no accidents in the house. This would serve to confine her to the kitchen and to keep her away from our dog Doobie. We knew from his recent contact with our friends&#8217; two dogs and his trips to the dog park that he could be okay around dogs when properly introduced, but this pit bull was an unknown factor. While pit bulls are very people friendly, they sometimes do exhibit dog aggression as they were bred for fighting dogs and baiting bears. They are also one of the canine world&#8217;s premier athletes as was quite obvious by this dog&#8217;s toned and muscular frame. I couldn&#8217;t risk the two dogs getting into a fight so the gate was a necessity.</p>
<p>I then spent an hour trying to lure the dog into the kitchen. She would always readily come inside and gently accept treats, but only when I was sitting down on the floor. By the time, I could get to my feet and close the kitchen door, she would have beaten me to it and dashed to the safety of the yard. I eventually accomplished my goal by throwing treats to the far side of the kitchen and then dashing to the door while she was out of the way.</p>
<p>That first day was a small piece of hell. My face and hands were dried out. My hands were still aching from the cold. My dog Doobie was confined upstairs where he whined without ceasing &#8211; which is his speciality. It was a Sunday so all the vets, animal rescue organizations, and the humane society were unavailable for contact. Still, I was able to put together a plan of action for the next day and the dog was very sweet and easy to manage inside the kitchen while I tried to get some stuff accomplished on my MacBook.</p>
<p>Melinda returned and put together a DOG FOUND flier in Power Point and then she stayed with the dogs while I traveled around for two hours posting the fliers at every logical intersection in my extended neighborhood. This tactic had worked for Ramses and I was really hoping that it would work for this dog as well. My second hope lay in the fact that the next day I could get her scanned for chips that could identify her owner.</p>
<p>That afternoon, we decided to try a bold experiment as the separation created by the gate was really annoying and not something that we desired to experience for possibly several days. We took Doobie and Dog Two (as Melinda started to call her) outside for a game of frisbee in the yard. At first things looked promising. Doobie excitedly fetched his frisbee while Dog Two seemed interested and followed while hanging back a bit. Then, after a few tosses like this, Dog Two started getting up in Doobie&#8217;s face and began to try to mount him. At that point, we immediately separated the two before anything bad could start.</p>
<p>Thankfully, Dog Two wasn&#8217;t too difficult when it came time to go to sleep at the end of that exhausting day. Melinda and Doobie went upstairs and I stayed in the kitchen until Dog Two seemed to drift off. I then slipped over the breakfast bar of our kitchen and slinked quietly upstairs.</p>
<p>The next day was disappointing as we found that Dog Two did not have any chips. Also, the vet suspected that she may have been abused as she seemed very nervous about letting people touch her neck behind her head. We found out that our vet could board the dog if we got her vaccinated and so that remained an option for us we couldn&#8217;t locate the owners before our planned post-Christmas plans of driving to Florida to visit my mom. It was an option I didn&#8217;t wish to exercise though as already the very sweet Dog Two was winning her way into my heart and the thought of her in cage like that for days on end seemed awful and also counterproductive should we have to move from the locating her owners phase into the finding her a home phase.</p>
<p>Unfortunately, thanks again to the <a title="Pit Bull FAQ" href="http://www.pbrc.net/faq.html" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.pbrc.net/faq.html?referer=');">inaccurate</a> bad reputation of pit bulls, most rescues will not take them because it&#8217;s not an efficient usage of the resources that they have seeing as it will be much harder to adopt out a pit bull than most other breeds. There are only two rescues in Georgia that I know to help out pit bulls: <a title="Pit Prints Rescue" href="http://www.pitprintsrescue.com/" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.pitprintsrescue.com/?referer=');">Pit Prints Rescue</a> and the <a title="Georgia SPCA" href="http://www.georgiaspca.org/" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.georgiaspca.org/?referer=');">Georgia Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals</a>. Naturally, when I contacted them their fostering resources were already filled to capacity. Pit Prints however offered a ray of hope in that should it become necessary we could pay to board Dog Two with them rather than board with our vet. This was a blessing because boarding at Pit Prints would mean home boarding with lots of human interaction and chances to nurture adoptable qualities.</p>
<p>It was a crazy and exhausting week, and Melinda and I both savored our time spent away from the situation while we were visiting her mom and her stepfather for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day. Because of our reluctance to board the dog and because she was showing signs of learning to behave around our dog through brief controlled encounters in the kitchen, we decided to cancel the planned to trip to visit my mother in Florida. Fortunately, she was understanding about why we couldn&#8217;t make it. It turned out to have been a good turn of luck actually because after Christmas, Melinda and I both caught a nasty cold that has been hanging around us for the rest of the vacation. I&#8217;m glad we didn&#8217;t have to suffer through a long car trip while sneezing and coughing and feeling miserable.</p>
<p>On the day before Christmas, we had spent two hours posting up some improved FOUND DOG fliers. It was kind of depressing that evening when the weather forecast proved wrong and rain poured down on Smyrna trashing most but not all of our hard work.</p>
<p>When we returned to our house at night after spending all of Christmas Day with Melinda&#8217;s mom and her stepfather, we received a wonderful Christmas gift: I let Dog Two and Doobie outside into the backyard and they proceeded to have a grand time playing with another. Dog Two had been very sweet through all of this and really the only thing standing between us housing her for long term was her interaction with Doobie.</p>
<p>We decided that given this new turn of events and seeing that fostering her would involve housing her for several months that rather than take another pit bull&#8217;s chance for adoption, it would just be better to adopt her ourselves should the original owners not come forward.</p>
<p>Despite this decision, we still continued doing all that we could to locate her original owners as returning her to them would be best. I reposted fliers where the rain had flushed them away and made sure to leave fliers with all local vets. I also posted ads with the local newspapers and with craigslist.</p>
<p>I finally managed to get in touch with a person at the humane society and they took our information, but no one had contacted them all month looking for a dog matching her description. With that bit of information and given that our fliers have been up for most days since we found her, I&#8217;m guessing her owners aren&#8217;t looking for her and so she will wind up being our pet.</p>
<p>We named her Peppermint because we found her over the Christmas holidays, she is sweet, she keeps it cool, and she kind of reminds us of peppermint with her pretty white coat and her nice off-red collar that we purchased for her.</p>
<div id="attachment_137" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-137" title="Doobie and Peppermint Chewing Bones Together" src="http://wrathfuldove.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/photo-1-300x225.jpg" alt="Doobie and Peppermint Chewing Bones Together" width="300" height="225" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Doobie and Peppermint Chewing Bones Together</p></div>
<p>She&#8217;s a very sweet and docile dog who loves people instantly, warming up to new ones now that she&#8217;s no longer cautious about us. My day of patiently dosing her with treats to lure her inside the kitchen and to win her trust have paid off by creating a strong attachment to me already.</p>
<p>Peppermint is still pretty young. I&#8217;d say she&#8217;s full grown, but still has her puppy energy about her. She and Doobie play together pretty well, but frequently she gets a little too feisty for him and you can see he finds her a bit of a nuisance at these times. Still, with a little training she should be able to pass her Canine Good Citizen Test and be a model citizen.</p>
<p>She is very intelligent and picks up on things quickly. Sometimes a little too quickly. For instance, we had been keeping her in the kitchen behind the gate at night, but after a few nights like this, she figured out she could hop over the breakfast bar just like we were doing. That led to us allowing her to sleep in the bedroom with us which seems to be working out alright for now. We don&#8217;t want to allow her to roam the house free until we can be fully certain that she won&#8217;t have any accidents or chew on anything that she shouldn&#8217;t be chewing.</p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t what we planned, but I think Peppermint will fit into our family nicely and she will ultimately benefit Doobie by giving him more exercise than we give him alone which will help him take off some of the extra pounds he is carrying around.</p>
<p>Update: (1/1/2010)</p>
<p>I just realized that my infrequent posts to this site these days have left this story incomplete. Alas, Peppermint didn&#8217;t fit so nicely into our family as I had hoped. She eventually grew more relaxed in our house and became far too energetic for our house and far too vigorous in her play for Doobie. As it became clear that we needed assistance, we began working with a wonderful local Pit bull rescue (<a title="Pit Prints Rescue" href="http://pitprintsrescue.com/" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/pitprintsrescue.com/?referer=');">Pit Prints Rescue</a>) to see about us fostering Peppermint until a more suitable home could be found.</p>
<p>We worked with Pit Prints for eight months, during which time I became more and more attached to Peppermint while Melinda found herself disliking her more and more as her high energy levels racked up more and more casualties in our home (curtains, bed, etc.). We boarded Peppermint with Pit Prints Rescue during the last month of August 2009 while we were on vacation. When we returned, we were blessed to find that another family working with Pit Prints had taken over fostering Peppermint for us while we continued to support her financially. This new foster family already fostered three other Pit Bulls and seemed much better at providing for her needs. As we were already paying for her food, toys, and vet bills, it was no problem to continue to do so as this family took her into their care.</p>
<p>It has been a bad year for pets in need of rescue and adoption this year with the economy taking such a hit. It has been especially bad for breeds like the Pit Bull that have a bad image in the media. Peppermint is still being fostered with Pit Prints Rescue and is in need of finding a family that can adopt her and provide her with a home where an intelligent and energetic dog can get all the attention and exercise that she needs. You can read more about her <a title="here" href="http://pitprintsrescue.com/html/adoptabulls/peppermint.html" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/pitprintsrescue.com/html/adoptabulls/peppermint.html?referer=');">here</a>.</p>
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		<title>At The Gates Demolish The House of Blues in Chicago</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I flew to Chicago on Bastille Day to see one of my favorite bands: the Swedish melodic death metal gods At The Gates. Initially, I had my hesitations about traveling from Atlanta to Chicago to see a concert &#8211; but ultimately the additional benefit of visiting a friend whom I&#8217;ve not seen in many ]]></description>
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<p>So I flew to Chicago on Bastille Day to see one of my favorite bands: the Swedish melodic death metal gods At The Gates. Initially, I had my hesitations about traveling from Atlanta to Chicago to see a concert &#8211; but ultimately the additional benefit of visiting a friend whom I&#8217;ve not seen in many years together with the one-chance-only kind of event that this concert represents (At The Gates broke up in 1996 and this is their &#8220;Suicidal Final Tour&#8221;), I went for it and purchased my tickets back in April along with a plane ticket and a hotel reservation.</p>
<p>My flight ran a little late so I didn&#8217;t actually get to my hotel until around 4:15 by which time I was pretty much guaranteed to arrive too late to see the opening band. This turn of events didn&#8217;t really bother me too much as I was only going to the concert to see one band and that band was the headliner. After dropping off my luggage at the hotel, I caught the airport shuttle back to O&#8217;Hare airport where I then took a CTA blue bus to Rosemont station. There, I finally caught the CTA blue line train which took me into downtown Chicago where I easily found my way to the House of Blues after a quick detour for some McDonald&#8217;s. </p>
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<p>When I entered the building to pick up my tickets from the Box Office, I could hear that the first band was already playing on stage. Apparently, they keep a tight schedule either on this tour or at The House of Blues in general. The concert doors opened at 5:30 and it seems that the first band Toxic Holocaust began playing at 5:45. As one guy waiting in line with me commented, that&#8217;s pretty amazing for one of these shows. Usually, you stand around for a long time after the doors open before any music starts and often there are long periods in between bands.</p>
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<p>With ticket in hand, I headed into the club and made my way to the back where I purchased for myself an At The Gates &#8220;Suicidal Final Tour 2008&#8243; t-shirt. By the time I finished and returned to the main concert room, the first band had packed up and been replaced by the night&#8217;s second act: a neo-thrash band called Municipal Waste. They were actually quite entertaining with their tongue-in-cheek lyrics and more-Slayer-than-Slayer sound. The place was already packed to the point of bursting so I had to enjoy the band from way back near the bar, but I still found the view good and the band&#8217;s energy and songwriting won me over quite quickly which usually doesn&#8217;t happen with opening bands that I&#8217;ve never heard before. For the last song in their set, their energetic front man eagerly whipped up the center crowd into a frenzy with calls to form opposing sides that smashed together in a &#8216;wall of death&#8217;. He then followed up with a call for the crowd to form a &#8220;circle of pain&#8221;. Quite thrilling stuff to watch from a distance although it makes me pine a bit for the time when I may have leaped into the fray myself.</p>
<p>After Municipal Waste wrapped up their show, there was a huge stream of metalheads flowing from the center of the crowd out towards the edges of the room where bars and restrooms stood to receive them. This temporary dispersal gave me the chance to make my way to a nice position just three to four bodies away from the stage where I often find myself as I never seem to arrive early enough to actually make the front row. Having staked my claim to a nice spot near the front, I planted roots and was ready for At The Gates to take the stage.</p>
<p>Unlike most concert venues that I&#8217;ve attended, the House of Blues has a big curtain on the stage that they use to hide the stage in between acts. So as the thinned crowded began to fill up again, we could hear the sounds of stage crew testing out various instruments and the mikes but all without actually seeing the, and therefore there were no incidents where some excited fan mistakes a roady on stage for a band member heralding the start of the show.</p>
<p>When the filler music cut off, it wasn&#8217;t At The Gates that took the stage.  Apparently four bands were performing on this leg of the tour despite the bill on listing three. The penultimate act was a band called Darkest Hour. They struck me as another generic and uninspired metalcore band with nothing that really hooked me. However, there were several people there who seemed to be really into them, and perhaps, they might have faired better with me if I had been more familiar with their material. Given that I was not, I simply tapped my foot politely and occasionally nodded my head to the beat while waiting for them to leave the stage and make way for At The Gates.</p>
<p>During the next round of filler music between acts, I and apparently several other fans were pleased to hear Slayer&#8217;s <em>Angel of Death</em> blasting from the speakers (a MIDI-based sample of this track is my current phone ringtone). A large group of fans standing behind me matched singer Tom Araya for every word and scream during this classic thrash track, and I found myself joining along before the end of the song. After that song finished, I was excited to hear the opening riffs to another Slayer song - <em>God Hates Us All</em> - only to have it cut off abruptly. At first, this was a welcome sign that At The Gates would play soon which summoned forth a lot of excited cheers, but these cheers turned to a few boos and a sigh from myself as the excellent Slayer track gave way to a merely okay Pantera song <em>Walk</em>.</p>
<p>But before this song could quite finish, the speakers went silent, the lights dimmed, and the curtains drew apart. At the Gates were ready to take the stage! This was the moment that many of us had waited twelve years to see &#8211; a moment that it seemed might never happen with this group long gone to the dustbin of broken-up bands. After a few heartbeats of atmospheric sound samples, the band members had all made their ways to their assigned positions on stage and without further delay, they burst into a blistering rendition of <em>Slaughter of the Soul</em>.</p>
<p>Instantly, I knew this was going to be a rough but thrilling crowd. Within seconds of the sonic attack, the mass of frantic fans behind me crashed forward like some wave of human bodies, and I found myself being crushed into the people in front of me, struggling mightily with my arms around my torso in an outward straining embrace designed to keep me from getting squeezed like a grape in a wine press.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s at moments like these when you&#8217;re sweating like crazy, your heart is thumping for all its worth, and your limbs are energized by the primal violence of the music that you truly capture the complete feel of the metal concert experience in all its adrenaline powered joy. While sometimes uncomfortable, the overall experience eclipses any minor nuisances like having an elbow slammed into your kidney or the flailing foot of a crowd surfer slapped against the back of your head.</p>
<p>Next up, the band smoothly moved into <em>Cold</em> followed by the excellent <em>Raped By The Light Of Christ</em> off their second album <em>With Fear I Kiss The Burning Darkness</em>. This is a &#8220;slower&#8221; song as At The Gates songs go, and so the crowd settled down a notch giving me the &#8220;pause&#8221; necessary to attempt recording some video with Melinda&#8217;s <a title="Flip" href="http://www.theflip.com/" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.theflip.com/?referer=');">Flip</a> which she kindly allowed me to take on this trip.</p>
<p>It would have all worked out marvelously, and by rights, I should have been able to post a link to a nice clip on YouTube featuring the band&#8217;s awesome performance. All of this would have been so if I had actually managed to press the Flip&#8217;s big red record button properly. Unfortunately, I only succeeded in turning on the Flip itself, and my pressing the button didn&#8217;t quite take hold so even though I held the Flip up and made every effort to move it around to capture the action of all the band members &#8211; I was actually capturing squat. Towards the end of this song, the Flip decided to shut down seeing as unlike me, it was perfectly aware of its idle state and decided to conserve energy. Puzzled (I didn&#8217;t figure out what had happened until I got back to my hotel room), I turned the Flip back on, and this time successfully hit the record button so that I managed to capture a measly fifteen seconds of the song&#8217;s end.</p>
<p>Oh well. At least, I managed a decent screen capture from that footage:</p>
<p><a href="http://wrathfuldove.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/at-the-gates-chicago.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-65" title="At The Gates House of Blues Chicago" src="http://wrathfuldove.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/at-the-gates-chicago-300x226.png" alt="" width="300" height="226" /></a></p>
<p>At The Gates continued ripping through songs from all of their releases including my favorite <em>All Life Ends</em> off their first release the <em>Gardens of Grief </em>EP. Every song they nailed with precision like the versions found on the albums only with that extra energy that gets captured in a concert setting by the best of bands.</p>
<p>For the encore, they performed three more songs kicking things into overdrive with <em>Blinded By Fear</em> during which crowd surfers started getting tossed like crazy and the churning swarms of moshers acted like a giant vortex that threatened to suck me into its hungry maw on a couple of occasions. Next was <em>Suicide Nation</em>, and in keeping with the concerts from their early days, they finished with the awesome <em>Kingdom Gone</em>.</p>
<p>At the end, the band threw a few things into the audience such as guitar picks, drum sticks, and the set list. One lucky person managed to grab both a drum stick and the set list and posted a picture of them on MySpace:</p>
<p><a href="http://wrathfuldove.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/setlist.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-66" title="At The Gates 2008 Set List" src="http://wrathfuldove.org/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/setlist-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>Afterwards, I left an exhausted but very happy man. This was pretty much the best concert that I&#8217;ve had the pleasure to attend, and I half-seriously looked online to see about booking a flight to Houston, Texas to see their next show this Thursday, but ultimately I couldn&#8217;t justify the costs of the airplane ticket let alone the price of a hotel. </p>
<p>It seems that like another fan commented bittersweetly, this was my first and last time seeing this amazing band play live.</p>
<p>I can only hope that they follow up the tour by releasing some an awesome DVD with footage from various shows!</p>
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		<title>Tracing The Musical Path</title>
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<p>Tomorrow, I fly to Chicago to go see seminal Swedish Death Metal band At The Gates perform at one of their few US tour dates on the Suicidal Final Tour 2008 which functions as the fair-well tour that the band never had when they broke up in the 90&#8242;s just before I discovered their awesome music.</p>
<p>As the show draws near, I&#8217;ve been thinking about the musical evolution of various forms of extreme metal music and how sometimes you can pick out a clear path from one end of the spectrum to the other. For example, one can easily trace the development from Black Sabbath to At the Gates:</p>
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<li>Black Sabbath <em>Black Sabbath</em> (1970): proto-metal with traces of its blues origin</li>
<li>Black Sabbath <em>Paranoid</em> (1970): early heavy metal</li>
<li>Judas Priest <em>Sad Wings of Destiny</em> (1976): beginning of classic heavy metal</li>
<li>Judas Priest <em>Stained Class</em> (1978): classic heavy metal with first hints of speed/thrash metal</li>
<li>Slayer <em>Show No Mercy</em> (1983): early speed/thrash metal with clear lineage from Judas Priest&#8217;s sound</li>
<li>Slayer <em>Hell Awaits</em> (1985): thrash metal &#8211; much darker with proto-death metal elements</li>
<li>Possessed <em>Seven Churches</em> (1985): proto-death metal with traces of thrash origins</li>
<li>Death <em>Scream Bloody Gore</em> (1987): early death metal with most thrash elements stripped away</li>
<li>Morbid Angel <em>Alters of Madness</em> (1989): seminal early death metal</li>
<li>Entombed <em>Left Hand Path</em> (1990): death metal with early hints of the melodic death metal sound</li>
<li>At The Gates <em>Gardens of Grief</em> (1991): early At The Gates with only hints of their future sound</li>
<li>At The Gates <em>With Fear I Kiss The Burning Darknes</em>s (1993): Early melodic death metal sound</li>
<li>At The Gates <em>Slaughter Of The Soul</em> (1995): Classic melodic death metal album</li>
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<div>Now I am not saying that the bands later in the list were directly influenced by bands earlier in the list, but if you listen to these albums in order you can clearly hear the relationships and the evolution of the sound.</div>
<div>That&#8217;s our little metal history lesson for today&#8230; &#8216;Til next time keep it metal!</div>
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		<title>Trip to the Grenadines (From May)</title>
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<p>I&#8217;ve been a real slacker of late when it comes to posting anything to this blog&#8230;</p>
<p>What can I say? Life happens.</p>
<p>At any rate, back in late May, my wife Melinda and I went on a very nice and relaxing vacation trip on a <a href="http://www.windjammer.com" title="Windjammer Barefoot Cruises" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.windjammer.com?referer=');">Windjammer</a> sailing cruise in the Grenadines. The idea for this trip has been hanging around in the back of our minds for quite some time now. Back when Melinda was in college at Georgia Tech, she was part of the sailing club and ever since she has been a big fan of sailing. While she was still at Tech, she saw an ad for the Windjammer cruises and thought that they sounded like a lot of fun. Fast forward a few years to when we got married in 2002: we were planning our honeymoon, and one of our top ideas was to take a Windjammer cruise. Ultimately, none of the cruise times synced up perfectly with our wedding dates, and instead, Melinda found us a nice package deal for a trip to Jamaica. We had a great honeymoon, but the idea of taking a Windjammer cruise at some point still lingered.</p>
<p>Every year since our honeymoon, we have done some sort of vacation trip to celebrate our anniversary whether it be a trip to Jamaica or a week in Asheville. For each trip, we have considered a Windjammer cruise, but increasingly it became clear that we would never find an ideal match between the Windjammer cruise schedules and our early September anniversary. Add to this situation the fact that Hurricane season is still in full swing during our anniversary&#8230; Let&#8217;s just say a Windjammer anniversary vacation simply isn&#8217;t in the cards for us.</p>
<p>Which brings us to early 2007. The first part of this year has been really stressful for the both of us at our jobs, but especially for Melinda. While <em>I</em> was at least gaining some job satisfaction during this period, she was mostly just gathering exhaustion and frustration. It was becoming very clear that she <strong>needed</strong> to take a vacation as soon as possible or she would crack. So one fateful day, I insisted that we take a Windjammer cruise like we had always planned, but that we do it then rather than put it off indefinitely. That was all it took to swing Melinda into gear. Shortly there after, she booked us a Windjammer cruise trip for the last week of May.<br />
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<p>It was really well worth it that we finally took this trip! I cannot recommend a Windjammer cruise highly enough to anyone with a sense of adventure and a love for the ocean. We flew from Atlanta to Miami to Puerto Rico to Grenada getting up around 3:30AM on Sunday morning and finally arriving at our boat around 9PM that evening. It was a long and exhausting flight, but when we got to Grenada we were met by our taxi driver who took us and some of the other passengers to the docks where our ship the Yankee Clipper was waiting for us. The moment we stepped on board we were served rum punch and swept away down stairs to fill out a few last-minute customs from since our cruise would take across international borders. Afterward the paperwork was finished, we enjoyed some wonderful food on the ship&#8217;s deck followed by some dancing and live jazz. It wasn&#8217;t long before we were very tired and ready to get some sleep to recover from the day&#8217;s journey.</p>
<p>Our cabins were small, but surprisingly comfy. We had a pair of bunkbeds with a small bathroom that doubled as a shower. We slept soundly through the night despite our ship&#8217;s departure sometime during the early hours of the morning. We had brought along some Dramamine for the trip in case of sea sickness, but fortunately neither of us experienced anything along those lines during the entire vacation.</p>
<p>The next morning, we got up at seven for an early breakfast to enjoy the last bit of sailing and found ourselves at sea. It was very exciting to go to sleep in one place to greet the sunny horizon in another. After some thrilling sailing followed by the main breakfast, we gathered on deck for what was to be a daily ritual where our captain would tell us about the area that we were approaching and what kind of activities we could enjoy as well as what activities we could sign up for on the following day.</p>
<p>For our first &#8220;Captain&#8217;s Story Time&#8221;, the captain introduced his crew to us and then told us about our first day&#8217;s stop &#8211; a beautiful beach on the small island of Carriacou. This island is to the north of the island of Grenada but it is still a part of the nation of Grenada. We got to enjoy some nice snorkeling and a picnic on the beach. We also experienced here our first afternoon shower, but thankfully there was a convenient shelter that we stood under until the rain cleared out, and the friendly sun showed itself once more. It was a perfect introduction to the wonderful days that would follow!</p>
<p>We spent half the day there and then returned to the ship to set sail for our next destination. We retired briefly to our cabins to shower and clean up. We found our beds had been made up and our towels had been replaced with clean ones that had been carefully and skillfully arranged into cute animal shapes. Every day, we found a new animal sculpture awaiting us at the end of our excursions ashore.</p>
<p>We sailed the rest of the day and into the night until on the morning of our second day, we found ourselves at the island of St. Vincent where we took a land-based tour of the capital city Kingstown and got to see some interesting sites such as an old British fort, a bay where the Black Pearl was constructed for film <em>The </em><em>Pirates of the Caribbean</em>, and a gorgeous botanical garden. That evening we had a fun costume party along with our usual night of dinner and dancing.</p>
<p>The next day were turned around for a slow sail back towards Grenada that would fill the rest of our week. Our first stop was the small island of Bequia where we enjoyed some shopping on the island in the morning and then went on a snorkeling safari in the afternoon where we saw lots of cool fish, some pretty squid and one <em>huge</em> lobster.</p>
<p>Next stop was the idyllic Tobago Cays which seemed like the virtual paradise always pictured on any Caribbean post card. The water was the most perfect gorgeous green and the photos that I took of our time there just don&#8217;t do it any justice. We stopped at a deserted island there in one of St. Vincent&#8217;s national parks and enjoyed a day of swimming, snorkeling, and another beach picnic. A fun fact abput this stop was that this beach was the one filmed in <em>The Pirates of the Caribbean</em> where the characters of Johnny Depp and Keira Knightley are stranded on an island together. This was the best snorkeling experience I have had so far. You couldn&#8217;t ask for clearer water and the fish were numerous and beautiful &#8211; although once again, my camera failed to capture the glory of it all. In fact, I find the stuff I managed to capture pretty darn pitiful. There were these majestic schools of fish that just look like hazy blurs in the photos along with some rather large fish that come off looking small and sad in the pictures that I achieved.</p>
<p>That evening we docked on an island whose name escapes me where we had a bonfire dinner on the beach. Melinda and I took a moonlit stroll along the beach and then retired to the ship exhausted from our exciting day.</p>
<p>On our last day of adventure, we returned to St. George, Grenada and spent the day taking a tour of the island&#8217;s capital. It was truly an interesting tour around the island. We got to see a spice plantation and learned a little about how chocolate and nutmeg are produced. I thought the cacao pods were really neat to see, especially the gooey banana-like insides that coat the cacao beans. We also heard a little bit about the final weeks of the doomed <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Jewel_Movement" title="New Jewel Movement" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Jewel_Movement?referer=');">New Jewel Movement</a> Revolution in Grenada from the late 1970&#8242;s and early 1980&#8242;s. The tour guide didn&#8217;t go into too much detail, but I knew what he was talking about as I had read about the details in William Blum&#8217;s excellent <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Killing-Hope-Military-Interventions-Since/dp/1567512526/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-1548222-5119269?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1184536286&amp;sr=8-1" title="Killing Hope: U.S. Military and CIA Interventions Since World War II" onclick="urchinTracker('/outgoing/www.amazon.com/Killing-Hope-Military-Interventions-Since/dp/1567512526/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-1548222-5119269?ie=UTF8_amp_s=books_amp_qid=1184536286_amp_sr=8-1&amp;referer=');"><span class="sans">Killing Hope: U.S. Military and CIA Interventions Since World War II</span></a></em> in the chapter on the US Invasion of Grenada in 1983 by the Reagan administration. It was somewhat strange and eerie to see the site where these events that I had read about had actually occurred.</p>
<p>After a full day that capped a marvelous week, we enjoyed another excellent dinner before retiring to an early night&#8217;s sleep before getting up at 4:30 in the morning for our flight home. It was sad to say goodbye to the Caribbean, but at the same time it was exciting to be flying once more. However, for our journey home, we got more than we bargained for with our connection flight in Miami.</p>
<p>But that tale is a story of its own for another blog entry&#8230;</p>
<p>In short, we had a truly awesome time during our week in St. Vincent and the Grenadines. We would definitely love to take another cruise on a Windjammer sailboat.</p>
<p>Here are some pictures that we took that capture a little bit of the flavor of our trip:</p>
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